Self love on Valentine’s Day tips

“How you love yourself is how you teach others to love you”- Rupi Kaur

Tomorrow is February 14th aka the only day in the year that is dedicated solely to love. Because holy forbid that love is shown any other day of the year right? I kid!

I don’t hate Valentine’s Day in fact I think it’s cute! Not my preference but it’s cute to see loved up couples all over the place!

To be honest though I miss the times in elementary school where people would pass out those cute V-Day cards. I remember putting so much thought to the ones I would give to certain people; only giving the best ones to my close friends. Those were the days!

But fast forward years later and I have yet to celebrate a Valentine’s with anyone. So over the years I have done things to celebrate Earth’s dedicated love day by myself.

Because self love is the BEST love!

Breakfast galore

The most important meal of the day serving it up Gary’s way! (That’s a scene from Spongebob if you didn’t catch that.) But no seriously making yourself or buying your favorite breakfast can literally change up your whole mood for the day! Especially if you don’t have the luxury of doing that any other day.

Spa yourself baby

Treat yourself to a at home spa day or actually go to a spa! I mean if you have the funds to do so. I’m cheap so I love at home spa days! I love to put on a face mask my favorite is India Clay Mask in case you need a recommendation. Draw yourself a bath and put in a bath bomb. Listen to your favorite calming music and just relax.

More food dudes and dudettes

Personally I feel like you should treat your self any day with your favorite foods but why not do it especially on love day? Eat your favorite foods and desserts! Make it a cheat day if you do that sort of thing!

Journal your thoughts and dreams

I LOVE journaling. Seriously any chance I can I love to write! Take the time on this beautiful day to do so! Light up your favorite candle and just write your dreams down! Your affirmations! In fact I want you to go to the mirror right now and just tell yourself that you are a badass human being! That you are loved and cherished. Anything you want! Do it!

Gather up the squad

If possible gather up your friends and don’t spend that day alone if you don’t want to that is! Share the love!

Show me the movies

It doesn’t need to be romcoms! Seriously it doesn’t! Just because it’s love day doesn’t mean you have to binge cheesy romcoms! Personally on this day I will probably binge some John Hughes movies because I love them so much.

What are some ways you celebrate Valentine’s Day? That is if you do celebrate; if not what do you do?

Until next time!


If We Were Having Coffee (1)

If we were having coffee….

I would tell you I been having a hard time posting anything on this blog. That while my head is filled with thoughts and ideas I can’t bring myself to actually do it.

If we were having coffee….

I would tell you that my mind has been all over the place since my internship has ended. That I really have no idea what I want to do in my life and that I am utterly afraid of wasting my 20s doing absolutely nothing.

If we were having coffee….

I would tell you that I finally finished F.R.I.E.N.D.S. and caught up with all the Marvel movies. That Tom Holland has got to be hands down THE best Spider-Man and no I am not ready for End Game. But oh so ready for Captain Marvel!

If we were having coffee….

I would tell you that my life so for being unemployed has consisted binging Netflix, eating Lokitos, and praying. Just hoping that one day everything just clicks for me.

If we were having coffee….

I would tell you that January wasn’t the best month for me and February isn’t shaping the way I thought it would. But it’s a new year and I am still bushy eyed hopeful of good things to come. So I’m not giving up.

If our coffee was done….

I would tell you that I hope to see you again soon and to not be a stranger! That I hope you bear with me as I try my hardest to post often!

Now if we were having coffee what’s new with you?

Till next time!

My 2019 Goals

“Develop an attitude of gratitude this year, and give thanks for everything that happens to you, knowing that every step forward is a step toward achieving something bigger and better than your current situation.”- Brian Tracy

When a new year hits I feel like everything has hit a reset button. Whatever negativity that happened in the previous year just vanishes with a Thanos’s snap (too soon?).

But seriously that’s the way I see it every single year. I truly love the idea of the whole new year new me because YES. It is a brand new 365 days!

Laugh more. Smile more. LOVE more. Do things that terrify you out of your comfort zone! Go on that adventure you been wanting! Focus on what blessings the Universe has given you instead of focusing on the things you don’t have.

Change your perception in life.

My goals for 2019 are really all over the place but are so connected to one another. Because if I had to pick one word for the year it would be “perception”.

YOU have the power to change your perception. I may not have this but the Universe has blessed me with this FOR A REASON.


I truly hope that this year I find my reason in life. The reason I was created and put on this earth and I hope 2019 brings you nothing but love and happiness.

So here are some of my goals for 2019. What are some of years?

    Have a stable full time career
    Travel as much as possible
    Surrender myself to the Universe
    Live and not just exist
    Laugh more, smile more, and love more

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My 2019 Harry Potter Planner

Happy New Year Darlings!!

I hope you had a beautiful and safe New Years! It’s finally 2019 a year I hope brings y’all nothing but happiness.

For this year’s planner I decided to not do a Bullet Journal for many reasons but the main one is simple. I’m too lazy. I’m going to be completely honest while I LOVE being creative for each page sometimes it gets too much so I decided to buy a planner this year.

BUT it’s not like any other planner oh no! It’s a HARRY POTTER one! It’s from Con Quest Journals and while I LOVE their Supernatural one when I saw Harry Potter I knew I HAD to get it!

So it was my little Christmas gift for myself and I absolutely adore it! While yes it was semi pricey when I look at other planners from Office Depot or other places it’s not so bad! Plus it’s Harry Potter of course I’m going to spend money on that shit!

So I ordered it and the quality guys! The quality is amazing! It’s hardback which I love so I don’t have to worry about it bending weirdly.

It opens up to this Hogwarts School list which I thought was so freaking cute! Like seriously take me to Hogwarts I’m ready!

It also has a 2019 Goals and Reminders which is something I liked to put in my Bullet Journal so I’m glad they have it!

Speaking of Bullet Journal they do have a couple pages that give you the ability to Bujo if you wanted!

Each month has a different character and it has a page that allows you to put reminders

It also has this cute section of what I’m reading or what to read. So if you are an avid reader this is a dream!

The layout for the days are just boxes which isn’t bad I actually love it!

I also love that they also have a section with lined paper! So script all your manifestations on paper and watch them come true

At the very end they have a 2019 year in review which I think is amazing!!!!

One of the great things as well is that they have stickers!!! I am a fanatic when it comes to stickers so this is great!

Well there you have it! My 2019 Harry Potter Planner! Let me know if you would like to see me continue to do a month by month plan with me!

Question of the day: What did you do for New Years?

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